Monday, August 11, 2008

monday blues


argh... Monday... seriously needs to be scrapped but i guess nobody has the energy to do that either...

anyhoodle...

weekend... very relaxed... spent in a very dirty house... the damn place is being painted and the painter, let me just say has no brains whatsoever... everything i mean everything is covered in a thick disgusting layer of dust... and he broke a glass vase of mine, there were two but he broke the real pretty one and left me with the ugly one... i mean honestly... so I've decided not to touch a thing until they finish tomorrow... to say that i was pissed on Friday when i walked in my house... a tiny bit of an understatement...

then on Sunday i met batman's new shag... please note that I'm really trying to be nice... so I'll just keep my mouth shut and wipe the vomit from the corners of my mouth... even Kay mentioned that I was quite rude... oops... i honestly don't know what got over me... it was just so fucking awkward and ag whatever... it happened... my kids noticed... sigh... i guess i can't like them all can I!?? (edited in: when i read asylum's comment i thought i should add this: it doesn't help that the new shag is an old shag batman had an affair with while we were married... flaunting it now somehow just got to me... I'm human after all it seems... so the new shags i can pretty much handle but the old one's... not so much)

hmmm other than that not much news... except... you don't like my header???

gasp!!!

gasp!!!

gasp!!!

I'm not crazy about it either... but nothing has grabbed me so far to fall in love with... and I'm tired of the old header... so Greg... hint hint :) so this will have to do until i get inspired... don't hold your breath sheebs... you don't like my fishies??!! oy... ok i changed it back to something else... for now...

you guys have a fantabulous week... i sure as shit hope i do, i got to stay positive :)

28 COMMENTS....bite me!:

Asylum_Escapee said...

Guess the wound is still open hey? Leave it up to the grat healer called time, you just human after all. But don't hate her, she has nothing to do with you and you can't blame her for anything. She just confirms that even though moving on is difficult, it has to be done. (I'm assuming all this by the fact that you said you were rude) Anyhoo don't mind my psycho babble. I feel this incessant need to offer advice even though i don't know the story or what is happening so i do apologise for that.

Mondays, enough said!

sweets said...

no apologies needed :) i added a little bit to the post to explain it a bit better... thanks asylum i heart your comments :)~

BecauseIcan said...

I dot like the fish either.. in fact i scroll past your header super fast.. ( fish scare me)

As for new shag.. you could always just point and laugh as you walk away.. I know - I know.. not mature.. but you will feel better knowing she will spend the rest of the day trying to figure out what was so funny !!

Caz said...

Shame lady. I would REALLY battle in that situation too!! But the most empowering thing you can do is be super nice to her as if you couldn't care less (actually as if you felt mild pity for her).
Diabolical.
Not nearly as simple as it sounds though, i know!

angel said...

oooh i am LOVING the header with the pictures of you in it!
i loathe painters- i am determined to be totally out of my place before my landlady starts shite like that.
sorry bout the "new" shag... i definitely think i would react the same way!!!

sweets said...

bic... LOL good one! i just kind of froze yesterday... it was so odd... argh... ok fish gone, happy now? :)~

caz... i usually do the "nice" thing but yesterday... i dunno what happened to me!

angel... fanks tjomma :) i was SO pissed i just want to hyperventilate at the thought that they'll be back tomorrow... i wonder what they will break then?!

supermom said...

I would not like to meet any of my ex's (not that I have a ex ... yet) shags. Nee man. I would not be proper if I had to

The Divine Miss M said...

See though if we scrapped Monday then Tuesday would just be like Monday, so we'd have to scrap Tuesday and then Wednesday would be like Tuesday which was like Monday and we'd have to scrap it too. (I could go on for ages but I'll stop now)

Piss: I quite like the header :)

Greg said...

Wait. Didn't you write something a few posts back (time is different for me) about what, what was it, jealousy? Yeah that was it. Just tell him in front of her, "I thought the other one was much hotter."

As far as a header, maybe everyone that knows you should say what you like and maybe that can give me or you some ideas? What are your favorite colors? And what are your favorite things besides people?

sweets said...

mom... blegh right?! hehe

miss m... ok you just spoiled it for me... fanks hey! hehe

greg... mwhahahahahahahahahaha ok to clarify... if i was JEALOUS of this woman it would mean that i actually want batman back...*hurl* WHICH I DON'T!!!... see there's a subtle difference... you have to admit! he always picks girls whose first name starts with a P and i almost pointed this out... i should have right?! ;)

so what do you think of my current header... boring right? cool! i'll think about it and let you know!

BecauseIcan said...

Like Gregs line.. will keep that in mind when Arsefuk gets dumped again and brings a new shag to show and tell...

And greg.. sweets likes eyes..this I know.. just NO FISH..k?

Charmskool said...

I think you are allowed to be rude to anyone that had an affair with your ex while you were married to him. Sheesh she was pretty rude to you to do that! As for painters ...I am shuddering in fear - I have to repaint my place and the very thought of the painters breaking my stuff and making chaos all round....

Tamara said...

Wow... really not many lovers of fish around, are there?

Southern Sage said...

i kinda like this header.
why you gotta be so mean to batmans chicks??
hehe
hope your monday gets mo betta

sweets said...

bic! yes i like eyes... i feel so special now... hehe

charm... poor you! painters should be shot on sight... *evil chuckle*

tamtam... i know! so rude don't u think? :)~

sage... kinda? kinda? pfffft... sage i'm many things but a pushover i'm not :)~
it's almost time to go home so my monday is just fantastic at the moment!

Asylum^Escapee said...

Ok, i retract some of the comments made earlier. I can understand how that would suck but hey, you can only grow stronger right? And if it helps: fuck them!

kyknoord said...

I'm still waiting for my ex to start dating so I can be rude to them. Most inconsiderate of her, if you ask me.

Flip Flop Momma said...

WHo doesnt like your header?...damn people..

Mondays suck no matter how u look at it..

Flip Flop Momma said...

WHo doesnt like your header?...damn people..

Mondays suck no matter how u look at it..

Slyde said...

the fact that it was an old shag makes your reaction completely understandible...

Greg said...

Sweets, I really don't think you have to want someone to be jealous of them. It obviously matters to you in some way. I won't get too deep because I might hit a nerve.

I'm not a big Warhol fan. The header is ok, but it’s reminiscent of him. The important thing is if you like it or not.

BecauseICan, I've noted the eyes, thanks. But Sweets just came off the eye thing, no?

Sweets, what about something more like a collage, but don't just think header, think about it encompassing your whole blog and tying everything together?

SheBee said...

Thanks so muc! I actually came here wincing until I saw your pretty shnozz instead of an ugly fish!

I say kill the bitch. Jealous or not. It'll be fun and I'll be your accomplice.

Love you long time!
x

Kingcover said...

If Mondays were scrapped then Tuesday would become the new Monday and then with one less day in the week Tuesdays would come around more often and before you knew it you would be asking for Tuesdays to be scrapped too then after more days have been deleted like that we would just be down to Saturday and Sunday and so we would end up having to work on weekends! So you see .... more is less! LOL :-P

M@ said...

The header's not bad but I wish you'd send me nude photos, Sweets.

sweets said...

asylum... no need to retract, honest :) i agree... fuck 'em :)

kyk... LOL you should send her some camomile tea perhaps? looks like tea did the trick for you!

flip... i know... nobody likes change apparently!

slyde babe... thanks hun... yeah well i surprised myself, that's all i actually got from this whole thing hehe

greg... "header is ok, but it’s reminiscent of him"... please explain yourself, i don't get this statement...and i'm still on to the eye thing... no getting off for me :) i like your ideas greg... so surprise me... i should start paying you shouldn't i? oops

sheebs... see what i'll do for you girlfriend? mwha

king... i have to introduce you to miss m... :)~


m@... is that the vodka or the weed talking?... LOL :)

Kingcover said...

LMFAOOOOOOOOOO!!!! I wondered what you were talking about with the whole Miss M thing and then I JUST read her comment above. Haaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha OMG I need to read comments more often before believing I've said something original *runs away fast*

:-D

Greg said...

Your header looks like something Andy Warhol might do (see some of his work here), and I'm not a fan of Warhol, meaning while I don't hate him, but his work doesn't do anything for me.

The Jackson Files said...

I like your header, but then again I like Andy Warhol too.

And I think you have every right to be rude to a person that was shagging your husband while you were still married. I mean, it must have been extremely hurtful.

 
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