tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post254321892564599400..comments2023-09-29T10:45:18.068+02:00Comments on Sweets: both sides nowSweetshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05362438172459556642noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-85350200257131235032007-10-29T09:08:00.000+02:002007-10-29T09:08:00.000+02:00knot: wise words indeed! thanks...knot: wise words indeed! thanks...Sweetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05362438172459556642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-44852058840733534652007-10-27T06:57:00.000+02:002007-10-27T06:57:00.000+02:00Abusive relationships are very complex. No outside...Abusive relationships are very complex. No outsider can understand why you went through what you did. I won't pretend to.<BR/><BR/>Part of it is that we tend to believe our abuser, or we make excuses for them, or we identify with them. In some way, they end up defining our life for us. It's bizarre, irrational, and totally unexplainable.<BR/><BR/>But we get attached to it. It's familiar, even comfortable, for all of its horror. <BR/><BR/>You've tucked yours away in a box so it can't touch you, but you still take it out and touch it.<BR/><BR/>Far be it for a total screwup like me to give advice, but you really ought to take that box and burn it, drive over it with a road compactor, put it in a crusher, or just drop it into some deep canyon, but get it the hell away from you.<BR/><BR/>As long as you can touch it, it can touch you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-57806838271195531872007-10-26T12:08:00.000+02:002007-10-26T12:08:00.000+02:00Thought you'd never ask!Thought you'd never ask!Glugsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00575948775313545395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-62972709144312407842007-10-26T12:02:00.000+02:002007-10-26T12:02:00.000+02:00angel: i know, but i still have a lonnnnnnnnnnnggg...angel: i know, but i still have a lonnnnnnnnnnnggg way to go :-)<BR/><BR/>glug: i don't know yet... i need some convincing, interested? ;-)Sweetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05362438172459556642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-91154381426726447262007-10-26T11:42:00.000+02:002007-10-26T11:42:00.000+02:00I hope you haven't lost all faith in men because o...I hope you haven't lost all faith in men because of one arsehole.Glugsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00575948775313545395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6213447705969986835.post-80404632290681469212007-10-26T09:24:00.000+02:002007-10-26T09:24:00.000+02:00wow... what a powerful post sweetass!!! incredible...wow... what a powerful post sweetass!!! incredible! i am so impressed with how far you've come...AngelConradiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09423318903817661244noreply@blogger.com